Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

29 Things

Some of my friends have made 30-by-30 lists in their 29th years, which is a fun idea, but I wasn't that motivated. I know myself -- I make resolutions every year and never follow through with them. However, looking back over my 29th year, I realized that a lot of great things happened and I had some noteworthy accomplishments, so I thought it might be fun to make a list of 29 things that happened while I was 29.

  1. A couple days after I turned 29, I trekked up to Vermont to take some baking classes at King Arthur Flour with a group of Boston bloggers, many of whom are now some of my closest friends. The bakers at King Arthur Flour even made me a birthday cake! I think I'll look back fondly on that trip for the rest of my life. 
  2. In October, my blog turned three years old. I can't believe I kept up with it that long and that it's rounding the bend to four very soon.
  3. I got to spend another fabulous Columbus Day weekend on Cape Cod. This has been a family tradition for at least 15 years now.
  4. I threw a 40th birthday party for Jeff!
  5. The week before our three-year dating anniversary, Jeff proposed and we got engaged!!!
  6. I got to meet Amanda Hesser!
  7. I hosted a fabulous potluck with some equally fabulous friends.
  8. I got to celebrate Thanksgiving twice, once with Jeff's family and once with my family.
  9. I went on a cruise to St. Thomas, St. Maarten, and the Bahamas!
  10. I was a runner-up in the Olivia's Organics Healthier Holiday Recipe Contest with my Thanksgiving dinner salad. I won lots of coupons to use for free Olivia's Organics greens!
  11. I made pretzel rolls for the first time and am officially obsessed with them. I just bought some pretzel salt at King Arthur Flour, so I'm sure I'll be making them again soon.
  12. I learned how to make challah and blintzes from my future mother-in-law. I still need to try making them on my own so I can share those recipes with you guys.
  13. I finally went to Fore Street and spent some time in Portland, Maine, with my mom on our way to Freeport for our annual shopping trip.
  14. I experienced a pop-up restaurant for the first time.
  15. We picked out our wedding venue and set a date!
  16. We picked out our wedding photographer!
  17. We celebrated Gunner's 4th birthday!
  18. My sister Martyann has been running track since high school, but I've never been home to see her meets. When she had a meet at BU, I finally got to watch one!
  19. I got to take a cooking class with Chef Vosika at the Four Seasons, and I even volunteered to break down a chicken. (I hate touching chicken.)
  20. I made French macarons that actually came out right!
  21. I went back to the Cape again to celebrate Easter with my family. It's so hard getting home to Connecticut for holidays like Easter because of all the travel time, so it's nice that my family was able to come up to the Cape so much this past year.
  22. I spent a week vacationing in Aruba -- this was some much-needed relaxation time!
  23. I got to cheer on my sister Lindsay as she finished grad school, interviewed for jobs, got the one she wanted, and moved across the country!
  24. I watched one of my good friends get married and spent some time in Quechee, Vermont.
  25. We designed and customized our wedding invitations. (Mindy is so great to work with. She really helped us create invitations that were unique and reflected the two of us.)
  26. I got my dream job!!! In mid-August I quit my job of five-plus years. I now edit recipes and food-related content and sample food all day every day! (Here's a picture from my first day.)
  27. I gave myself a week off in between jobs, and it was exactly what I needed to recharge and rejuvenate.
  28. I bought my wedding dress! (I found it at Madeleine's Daughter in Portsmouth, NH, and I highly recommend this dress shop. Ask for McKenzie if you go -- she's awesome!)
  29. I experienced my first earthquake. It was nothing to write home about but still pretty cool once I realized what was going on.
29 has been an absolutely incredible year. I can't believe all the amazing things that happened in my life. Goodbye 29... tomorrow I turn 30.

Oh, and a happy birthday shoutout to my brother Martin who turns 16 today!


Thursday, September 1, 2011

Portsmouth Eats: Portsmouth Baking Company And Cava

Finally, three weeks after my first dress appointment in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, I returned with my mom and sister. Unbeknownst to me when I was scheduling the appointment, that weekend also happened to be the weekend of the Portsmouth Air Show. Apparently, this is a big deal. We tried to no avail to find a hotel room in Portsmouth for Friday and Saturday nights. Finally, my mom found a room in Hampton at a place called Lamie's Inn. The inn was very quaint, and our room, though small, was just perfect for the three of us for the weekend. Even though we couldn't be right in Portsmouth, being in Hampton was much better than being in Boston. We could see the traffic on 95 on Saturday morning and were so relieved to not be in it.



After we checked into the inn on Friday evening, we headed into downtown Portsmouth to find some dinner. I was trying to keep dinner casual and suggested we try Fat Belly's. Big mistake. The fried pickles were incredible; the service was terrible. We waited way too long for our food, and no one came over to let us know what was going on or how much longer it would be. I think it's probably a good place to sit at the bar, munch on fried pickles, and throw back some drinks, but it wasn't the best place to grab a bite to eat after traveling all evening.



We headed back to the inn to get a good night's sleep.



The next morning, knowing there might be traffic even on Route 1, we left almost an hour early for my dress appointment. Traffic was not as bad as expected, and this gave us plenty of time to head into Portsmouth for breakfast. I had seen the Portsmouth Baking Company the night before when we were looking for a place to have dinner and wanted to go there.







I don't think I've ever seen such a pristine-looking bakery. I found myself wondering if any of the food was actually made there. Of course it is, but the whole baking process happens in a tucked-away space behind glass.







Widescreen TVs allow patrons to see what's going on up there.







We surveyed the baked goods and left with a croissant and a tomato and cheddar strata for my mom and I to split and a loaf of crusty bread for my sister.















All three were fresh and flavorful. I'm a sucker for a flaky croissant, but I think I actually liked the strata better. It was firm, eggy, rich, and cheesy. We ate these on the way to Madeleine's Daughter and finished them up in the parking lot while we waited for the shop to open at 10 a.m. (I don't know what it is about me and needing to stuff my face when I'm dress shopping!)



Portsmouth Baking Company on Urbanspoon



We were shown to a dressing room after I checked in, and McKenzie, my consultant, came to greet us shortly after. She and I went in the back where she pulled my dresses from, so I could tell her what order I wanted to put them on in without my mom and sister knowing.



I tried on four dresses for them, and my mom started tearing up when I put on the last one, which was my favorite. It was everyone's favorite. It was THE dress! I reluctantly took it off, changed back into regular clothes, and had my measurements taken. Then we paid for the dress and had the rest of the weekend to do whatever we wanted.



We drove through Kittery, Maine, stopping at some outlet stores and the new When Pigs Fly Bakery and Pizzeria, and then we continued on to Ogunquit, Maine, and wandered around some shops there for a little bit.



We headed back into downtown Portsmouth for dinner. I didn't want to pick again and end up making a bad choice, so I simply said if I had my choice, I'd want to go to Cava.







We happened to pass Cava as we strolled around, and my mom was drawn to the menu. My sister, who is very picky, was a good sport and said we could eat there if we wanted. We were shown to a small table right out on the patio.







My sister just had plain beef sirloin and saved room for an after-dinner gelato, while my mom and I did the tasting menu. The hostess and our waitress both told us the tasting menu was a great way to experience the restaurant and get a feel for the chef. It sounded like fun to us as we both like to sample lots of different dishes.



We started with some cocktails. I can't remember the name of the drink my mom ordered, but I, predictably, got a St-Germain cocktail. Cava makes it with St-Germain, Poema Cava, and sparkling water and serves it in a giant glass.







First up on the tasting menu was yellow fin tuna with watermelon, yuzu, jalapeño, and coriander. This started our meal on a light, bright note. I'd always wanted to try yuzu after hearing it mentioned time and again on Top Chef. The gray salt on top of the watermelon was a nice touch as well.







Next, we moved on to the heirloom tomato gazpacho and white corn soup. I don't know what I was expecting, but it definitely wasn't a bowl with two soups neatly divided down the middle like we got. The tomato gazpacho filled one side of the bowl and had more of a bite to it, and the corn soup filled the other side and was creamy and sweet. I liked scooping my spoon down the center and getting some of each soup in every bite.



My bowl had olive oil drizzled on top in a "G" -- perhaps for my future last name!







The olive oil drizzled in my mom's bowl resembled a heart.







Next, we each got a piece of cold smoked pork tenderloin with red quinoa, grapes, fattoush, and sumac. This was the favorite course for both of us. I loved the contrast of the sweet grapes with the smoked pork.







I tried my best to like the next course -- day boat scallops, plums, saffron, serrano ham, and viura -- but I just don't like scallops. I always try to but something about the flavor and texture never works for me. I did enjoy the crispy serrano ham and soft plums though. And my mom liked the scallops.







The patatas bravas came at a good time. We'd had mostly light dishes, and the potatoes were much more filling. They were accompanied by a garlic aioli for dipping and were topped with herbs, sea salt, and chili threads. The insides were soft and creamy and the outsides hot and crisp.







The last savory course was star anise-rubbed beef sirloin with chanterelles, summer squashes, and goat cheese. We loved all but the meat in this course. We both decided we would have liked it better if it were filet mignon versus sirloin. The sirloin was just too tough to enjoy. I did love the idea of pairing goat cheese with the beef though.







Next we had golden pineapple with lime and pomegranate molasses. This served as a nice palate cleanser before the dessert course.







Dessert was an almond torta with peaches, peach preserves, vanilla bean yogurt, granola, and mascarpone cream. Despite each dish before seeming like just a few small bites, we were pretty full at this point. It was nice to be presented with a light, fruity dessert. I really loved the mascarpone cream topping the moist, nutty torta.







We had such a lovely evening at Cava. The food was delicious, the atmosphere inviting, and the service friendly and attentive. It was such a great place to celebrate finding THE dress! I recommend this restaurant to any adventurous eaters who find themselves in downtown Portsmouth. I can't wait to go back!



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After dinner we did a little wandering on our way back to Hampton and found a great place to see the water and walk around for a little bit.







It was the perfect way to end the day.







Have you been to Portsmouth? What are your recommendations?

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Alma Nove, Hingham, Mass.

Wedding dress shopping trip No. 2 happened the weekend after the trek to Portsmouth, New Hampshire. My mom, sister (Martyann), and matron of honor (Liz) were all already venturing up from Connecticut, so I thought it would be good to stay somewhat local and check out a shop in Hingham, Mass., where my friend who got married in July found her gorgeous dress.



The dress shop was very cute but disappointing after my trip to Portsmouth. Instead of having dresses brought to me, I was supposed to grab dresses off the rack that I wanted to try on. I wasn't a huge fan of this system after seeing how well it worked the other way. I also ended up trying on dresses that were over my budget (luckily, I didn't like any of them more than the dresses that were in my budget). I would see my mom, Martyann, and Liz get excited over a particular dress, but I kept thinking about the dresses in Portsmouth.



After my appointment, I filled them in on how I was feeling about the dresses at this shop compared to the ones in Portsmouth and apologized for not just having everyone go to Portsmouth that day. Rather than let the day be a total waste, we all decided to go out to lunch. We weren't far from the Hingham Shipyard and I had been hearing a lot about Alma Nove, so I suggested we go there.



Alma Nove was founded by Executive Chef Paul Wahlberg and co-owners/brothers Mark and Donnie Wahlberg (yes, that Mark and that Donnie), as well as family friend Ed St. Croix. It was named after the Wahlbergs' mother Alma, who had nine (nove) children. The restaurant is right on the water and has lots of large glass windows, allowing for great views and tons of light. (I didn't see it, but there's also a patio area overlooking the water.) The cuisine is inspired by Italy and the Mediterranean and features specialty pastas, fresh seafood, and a wood-burning grill.



Alma Nove offers pitchers of some of their cocktails (I've been noticing this more and more at restaurants and am hoping it's a trend that's going to stick around), so my mom, Liz, and I shared one. The pitcher gave us one drink each with a little to spare. We tried the Cape Stoddard, which is a mixture of Double Cross Vodka, St-Germain, and Spindrift sparkling cranberry raspberry soda.







For appetizers we opted to share the Mediterranean chop salad and the beef carpaccio. The salad was full of tomatoes, cucumbers, kalamata olives, sweet onions, red peppers, feta, preserved lemon, and olive oil. The veggies were crisp and crunchy, and I loved how the feta coated every bit of the salad.







The wagyu beef carpaccio was very thinly sliced and topped with hearts of palm, a little arugula, and some fabulous fried capers. I kept scooping extra capers up with my beef.







I was all over the place trying to decide on an entree, but I finally chose the mafaldi with Italian sausage, roasted eggplant, fresh mozzarella, and tomato basil sauce. Mafaldi is one of my favorite pasta shapes -- it's like a skinny lasagna noodle with curly edges. I was so happy with my lunch choice. The sweet tomato sauce paired perfectly with the eggplant and sausage, and the melted mozzarella pulled the whole dish together.







My mom also chose a pasta dish. Hers was a creamy carbonara-style dish made with basil linguine topped with sautéed lobster, sweet peas, and pancetta. The basil linguine was mildly flavored and not overwhelming.







My sister and Liz both got the wood-grilled sirloin burgers with homemade pickles and fries.







None of us had room for dessert, but my mom did try a Strawberry Basil Martini -- made with Hendrick's Gin, muddled strawberry, and basil. I found the drink a bit too strong for my tastes, but I thought the presentation was beautiful.









Lunch at Alma Nove was a great way to end our girls' day out. Even though I didn't find my dress that day, we still had a great visit and some fabulous food.



Alma Nove on Urbanspoon



Have you been to Alma Nove yet?

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Portsmouth Eats: Popovers And Surf

About a month ago, I went to Portsmouth, New Hampshire, with my friend Carrie to shop for wedding dresses. Her wedding is the month before mine, and we thought it would be fun to make the trip together and see if we found any dresses we liked enough to bring our moms back to see.



Why were we heading to Portsmouth when there are plenty of dress shops right in Boston? There's a shop in Portsmouth called Madeleine's Daughter where friends and friends of friends have bought their dresses and it was recommended to me so many times I had to check it out. I'd rather go somewhere where someone has had a great experience than draw straws trying to figure out where to go.



So anyways, that's why Carrie and I made the trek (it's only about an hour), and being the good brides we are, we headed out early to make sure we'd get to our appointments on time. We arrived with plenty of time to spare, drove into downtown Portsmouth, parked in the (ridiculously cheap to this Boston-area girl) parking garage ($0.75 an hour), and sought a place to have breakfast.



We walked across the street to Popovers, which was also recommended to me by several friends.







It just so happened that there was an open table outside, so the hostess reserved it for us, and we went in to place our orders. For some reason, we were both in the mood for egg sandwiches with cheese and bacon (maybe something about wedding dress shopping makes you crave bacon?), so we each got one.







The sandwich, served on a soft roll with lots of egg and gooey cheese, definitely hit the spot, but I wished a couple pieces of the bacon were a little crispier. I also wished I had room after breakfast for some of the delicious-looking pastries in the case.







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But, calories consumed and minutes dwindled, it was time to drive the 2 miles back down the road to the dress shop. We were both a little alarmed to see that the shop was in a strip mall, but our fears subsided once we got inside. We were greeted, checked in, and ushered to plush chairs to wait. Then we were each taken to our respective dressing rooms, where we tried on as many dresses as we could during our 1 hour appointments. My consultant helped me quickly narrow down what I was looking for. I went in with an idea of what I wanted and didn't want and actually loved one of the silhouettes I thought I would hate (trumpet) and hated the one I thought I would love (A-line). At the end, Carrie and I showed each other our top three dresses.



I actually found my dress that day; I just didn't know it yet. I know everyone says you just know when you find the dress, but I am a little on the practical side, so I think deep down I knew I had found the dress, but I needed to look a little more just to be sure. I asked my consultant (McKenzie -- who I very, very highly recommend -- she was awesome) to mark down my four favorite dresses and planned to bring my mom back to see them.



Wedding dress shopping is hard work. There's a lot of diving and turning, stepping up and stepping down, and gawking and admiring. We were tired and in need of some nourishment... and cocktails. A quick drive brought us back into downtown Portsmouth, and after a little wandering around, we decided to check out Surf for a light lunch.







Surf, located on Bow Street, happens to have a teeny tiny back balcony with four tables on it that overlooks the water. It was a pretty warm day and I think people were trying to stay in the air conditioning, so we got the balcony all to ourselves.







We started with cocktails. You all know my love for St-Germain by now and my desire to get everyone to love St-Germain, so we both tried the Piscataqua cocktail (St-Germain, Pama liqueur, Champagne, and soda water). The drink was just what we needed: a little bubbly, a little sweet, a lot refreshing.







Then we decided to just share an appetizer and a salad. We went with the fried Jonah crab cakes and the fried tomato and crispy bacon salad (I'm telling you... wedding dress shopping does that!). The crab cakes were just the way I like 'em: lots of crab, no fillers. They had a crunchy coating and came topped with a Louisiana-style remoulade.







I wouldn't recommend ordering the fried tomato and crispy bacon salad if you're really looking for a light salad, but if you want a salad with some depth and a lot of flavor, then go for it! The bacon on this salad was crisped to perfection. I don't think I've ever had fried red tomatoes, and I found them less sturdy and more "melty" than green tomatoes. This was an interesting way to add them to a salad as opposed to just chopping them and tossing them in. The tomatoes and bacon rested on a bed of mixed lettuces, and the whole thing was topped with a peppery parmesan dressing.









Just as we were paying our bill, some other diners decided to brave the heat. The timing worked out nicely for us. And I just have to note that even though we were all alone on the balcony, our waitress was awesome. She was attentive, never forgot about us, and made some great recommendations for us about the drinks we got and the dishes we ordered. It was so relaxing and peaceful to sit out on the water, sip cocktails, have some girl time, and enjoy a leisurely lunch.



Surf Seafood on Urbanspoon



Overall, we had a really fun day in Portsmouth. I think trying on dresses made the wedding seem even more real and imminent. One of the things about having a long engagement is feeling like the wedding is lightyears away and there's plenty of time to get everything done. But that gets balanced out by realizing there's more and more stuff to do and then thinking you won't ever get it all done. It was kind of a relief to start the dress shopping process and realize that there actually could be a dress out there for me. I left looking forward to returning and showing off the dresses to my mom... and hopefully spending a little more time in downtown Portsmouth.



Have you been wedding dress shopping -- for yourself or friends? What do you remember most about it?

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Girls' Day Out And A Glimpse Of Boston Bridal Lounge

Yesterday morning I set out bright and early to meet two of my friends down on Newbury Street for facials and lunch. We had back-to-back appointments at G Spa and finally used our Buy With Me discounts that we bought months ago. We each did a 1-hour splurge facial, which was totally worthwhile (at $50 rather than the usual $100) and very relaxing.

With glowing skin, we headed next door to 29 Newbury for lunch. Both of my friends got the warm goat cheese salad while I opted for the grilled vegetable press -- a grilled wrap filled with caramelized onions, eggplant, spinach, mushrooms, and asiago cheese. It came with some incredible sweet potato fries. Besides that it's ridiculously overpriced at $16, the sandwich is very tasty. (I wish I had taken a picture.) We also split a bottle of prosecco because girls' day out requires a little bubbly!

At this point one of my friends had to head out, but my other friend and I decided to wander down Newbury Street. I had mentioned hearing about Boston Bridal Lounge, and since we are both engaged and have wedding stuff constantly on the brain, we set out to find it.

A small A-frame sign outside 125 Newbury Street is the only indication that Boston Bridal Lounge can be found inside. We spotted the sign, went in, and took the elevator to the second floor to find a gorgeous lounge and showroom.


Eleni and Kerri welcomed us, took our coats, and lead us to the comfortable white leather couches, where we sat and talked about our weddings. My friend is getting married in July and is much further along, focusing on the very last details at this point, while, as you know, I'm just getting into the swing of things. I have a ceremony and reception venue, caterers, and a photographer so far.


Inside Boston Bridal Lounge is a whole library of portfolios from different vendors, and as I talked about what I was looking for Kerri or Eleni would grab a binder as well as contact information for a vendor they thought would meet my budget and needs.


And as luck would have it, Jeanne from I Dream of Jeanne Cakes was there with two different wedding cakes that day, and we got to try a slice of each. The one on the left was a vanilla cake with mango and macadamia buttercream. The buttercream had just a hint of sweetness, which I really like. The cake on the right is the raspberry truffle cake -- dark chocolate cake with a thin layer of raspberry jam and rich chocolate raspberry truffle. Both cakes were moist and flavorful, and I'd be happy to have either at my wedding.


I actually still haven't decided if I'm going with one of the cake vendors included in our venue contract or getting a cake credit from the venue and getting the cake elsewhere. People have asked if I plan to make my own cake, but I just don't think I have the storage space for it, and my stress level would probably skyrocket. Plus, I've been told that as the bride, I'll have so many other things to be thinking about in those days leading up to the big day!


I got some great information from Kerri and Eleni about some local vendors they trust and definitely have some more research to do now.


Boston Bridal Lounge hosts events or meets with couples by appointment, and as my friend and I found out, Kerri and Eleni definitely seem happy to sit down and chat with curious brides-to-be who just happen to stop in on a Saturday afternoon.

If you're married or planning a wedding, did you or do you have a wedding planner? And more importantly, what kind of cake did you have, or what's your dream wedding cake?

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

January Recap And February Plans

January, while it seemed like it might be a quiet month at first, ended up being quite busy.

I started the new year by spending the day with my future mother-in-law making blintzes and challah (and yes, there will be posts/recipes for these at some point, once I make them on my own) and then went over the next day to have brunch with Jeff's family.

After brunch, Jeff and I headed to out to visit a potential wedding venue. I had been focusing the search on farms and barns, and the inn we went to has a gorgeous barn space. As opposed to a couple other locations we went to, the barn looked every bit as perfect in person as it did in pictures. We left thinking it was a definite possibility. It was the fourth venue we looked at, and so far we only had one other place on our potential list.

The following weekend we went to see yet another venue. We headed north, took a few turns off the highway, and found ourselves driving down a tree-lined road through lightly falling snow. It was so picturesque. We met with the wedding coordinator, toured the grounds, revisited the menus (which I had already practically memorized), and asked all of our important questions (Could our dog come? How does the open bar work? Where can our out-of-town guests stay? Do you use local, seasonal food?). I think we both had a gut feeling about this place because we weren't on the fence like we were with the other two potential venues. When we left and got back in the car, we looked at each other and said, "We're getting married here, right?" And so... we picked our venue and set a date! Now that that's done, I am taking a little breather, but I'm excited to start dress shopping, picking out invitations, and thinking about all the little details!

Enough wedding talk though (I know most of you come here for the food)... I continued to do a bunch of cooking and baking at home all month long (as you know) as well as attended a ton of food events, including:
I really can't believe how much I fit in during January, and now February is already filling up! Here's what's on the radar:
... and I am sure some other things will come up throughout the month -- they always do!



What was the best part of your January, and what are you looking forward to in February?

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Three Years And Some BIG News


Three years ago today, I had my first date with -- and there's no non-cliche way to say this -- the most wonderful, incredible, amazing guy. I moved into my new apartment (right next door to his condo) in May around the same time he brought home a certain chocolate lab puppy. (Yes, I owe this all to Gunner.)


For months we would see each other in the morning when I was walking to work and he was taking Gunner out or at night when I was coming home from class (grad school) and he was taking Gunner out. I like to tell people we met on the street. During these run-ins, we smiled, we waved, and eventually we started to talk. I actually found myself getting disappointed when I would make it all the way to my door without running into him.


Finally, after months of casually chatting, we had our first date. It didn't really go as planned. The plan was to go to Redbones in Davis Square. The plan was also for him to drive. He met me at my door, explained he'd locked his keys in his house, and asked if I would drive instead. (Now, looking back, I like to think I made him nervous.)


Anyone who knew me then, with my on-street parking, knew I hated moving my car at night. But you know how first dates are... all about first impressions, so I silently sucked it up, and I drove us to Davis Square where we proceeded to drive around for half an hour looking for parking. Eventually, I remembered that the Warren Miller movie was playing that night at the Somerville Theater, and parking was a lost cause. We turned around and headed home.


We decided to walk down the street to East Coast Grill instead. Honestly, as great as Redbones is, I think East Coast Grill is a better first date spot. (We made it to Redbones for the second date.) It's also in our neighborhood, which makes it pretty significant. I still remember what we ate that night. He ordered the swordfish, I got the mahi mahi, and we shared a piece of chocolate pecan pie.


Clearly things went well because here we are three years later, living together, thinking about buying a house, and at this very moment, hopefully lying on a beach in the Bahamas.


Oh, and we also got engaged last Sunday!!!

I was completely surprised!

I kept telling anyone who asked that it would probably be a couple years before he asked. Boy, was I wrong! I went out to get my nails done on Sunday afternoon in preparation for the cruise and came home to find Gunner with his collar on (which he never wears inside, so I was a little confused as to why he was wearing it) and Jeff standing there, waiting for me to figure out there was a ring box attached to Gunner's collar.

I opened the box and Jeff got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I laughed and cried and said yes!  We are both incredibly happy, and the timing was so perfect. He thought I was expecting him to pop the question on the cruise (which I really wasn't), and so he went out of his way to make sure I was surprised. He did good! We get to enjoy our first cruise together newly engaged.